Less him… more Me: Refesh that Hot Mama in you

So upon a quick review of my last few entries… there is entierly too much “him” talk…. yea yea.. he’s wonderful and all that jazz… but what about me?!? lol

What about the complicated aspects of my life… although being a constant nag and complainer with a “wonderful him” is partially what attributes to my complicity…. ENOUGH of him.

 

Seriously ladies, What is up with being the most overlooked player our own lives? We’re constantly giving and taking care of others and our own wants and needs??

 

—-Whooooossh! RIGHT OVER OUR HEADS—- … “What do you mean what do I want? … well I just want to make everyone happy”…. Pssshhhh! Tell it to a judge Sista- That is a LIE… and it is a lie that is getting O-L-D, Old!

 

Sit back and think about it (guilt free)… what do you REALLY want- For you? … not for anyone else

 

I’ll give you a minute….. <<<cue: Jeopardy Theme>>>

 

 

Ok- minute up!

 

You SEE?!? You thought you thought all those personal wants disappeared didn’t you?!?!… Look at that laundry list!… o yea and cross off the win the lotto one hun, … we all want that… That “Hey you never know” stuff is nonsense, I KNOW and sweetie, its most likely not happening (sorry! someone had to tell you)

 

Lets focus on the more realistic, simple things that we brush aside every day.

 

When I made my list I realized that although I wanted some low-cost things like a “new shirt” or “hair cut”… I was pushing those things aside and spending the money on things like PIZZA or McDonalds, cause it was something we could ALL share… but is that really what I wanted? To SHARE 2000 unnecessary calories? Trust me, after you’ve packed on 10 lbs from your efforts of trying to making everyone happy… no shirt or haircut is going to help. I know if I didn’t utter the word pizza or McDonalds my child most likely would be perfectly happy with the meatloaf I made.

Un-Complicated Tips to refresh that hot mama in you:

- GET OUT A-LONE… that means SOLO.. no kids, no hubby, no BESTIE.
NO-BOD-Y

- GET DETAILED. Just like a car sometimes needs a lil TLC.. so do you… get those brows shaped… get that over due Mani-Pedi… Get the ‘Hauuurr Did’… something (or things) that make you feel more sexi-fied. (In my opinion, when your skin feels refreshed so do you.. so I say start there!)
My super secret? : You know those counters in Macy’s with the “annoying” associates badgering you with “purchase with purchase” mumbo jumbo? … stop at one of those counters. Prentend for a second money is not an object and MAYBE .. just MAYBE you can afford whatever expensive make up you want. Listen to their shpiel … and LET THEM do your make up! Its usually free or sometimes the cost of any 1 or 2 products (which you can usually get for only $20) Which leads me to my next tip..

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